Okay there is this *person* that I know who is driving me nuts. Everybody is telling me I have to be nice to *P* (lets just call this person *P* ~ short for person). It's not that I hate *P* or even dislike *P*. I am just so sick and tired of the woes me attitude, and the please do this for me and "help" me do this cause my life is so bad attitude, and I won't pay you for any of it and I'll blame it on other things but you know it's because my coveted *N----- O--* are more important to me. I am finding this *P* to be selfish, rude, lazy, mean and I could go on but I hate to feel this way. Judging people is something I HATE to do. If this *P* would just step back and take a GOOD LOOK at what they have they would see that their life is pretty darn good. They would see that they have everything they will ever need right in front of them. I REFUSE to help somebody who will NOT help themselves. I will pray for you and those around you but do not call me complaining and whining. No bad day at work is a good enough reason to be down right vile with those you are supposed to love. Your friends and children will treat you the same as you treat them. Respect is not something you can DEMAND from any one at any age. It is something you have to earn. Grow up, get up, get over it!!!!